christmas and life.

merry Christmas to you all.
its going to be lots of fun and celebrations, that's cool. but i hope we dont forget that Jesus is the reason for the season.
how? remember it is the birth of Christ that brought the meaning life has got today and it began by God giving His only Son. if God could give, how much less we.
please amidst the jumping here and there, please find time to give meaning to someone's life. check out homes for the less privilege. remember the homeless on the street. remember that neighbor that has a lot of kids with a little to go round.
yet amidst all these, remember to love the one who first loved you by loving Him in return. dont crucify the Son of God a second time.
as you reach out in love as much as you can this season, love will find it's way back to you because GIVERS NEVER LACK and YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW!
cheers people!

NOW!

NOW!

Really been a long while. Sincerely, I would have loved to have never left for so long but I guess wishes as we all know are not horses so beggars can’t ride.
Today is all we have, in fact now is the much we have. As true as this is, many of us don’t live conscious of this. For me, this is part of the underlining factor of a lot of rubbish that happens around us. This is why a man and his wife will have issues and refuse to settle. This is why a woman will decide to work out on her life and the ones around her. This is why greed is every where, in every vacuum and full place.
People, life is but a moment, like a whirl wind, that just comes and then it’s gone.
I lost my mum earlier this year and really, it is still as unbelievable as that day, 6 months, and 13 days ago. It hurts but she’s gone .if there were things she couldn’t do when, too bad and too late. Well, she tried her best and touched as much life as she could in her 51 years on earth.
Now back to you and me that still have life. Even if it’s only now we have, what are we doing with our ‘now’? How many people have u prayed for? How many can link you to a particular success in their life? How many evil have you fought?
It’s the close of another year and so many will begin to talk about their New Year resolutions, well, how good, only that it is not good enough. What you can start now and decide to leave till tomorrow for no good reason, may never come your way again.
What I’m I saying? My mum’s motto was this: ‘do all the good you can, to every one you can, in every way you can at every point in time’.
It is one day at a time. Let’s make our todays count.

YOURSELF BEFORE OTHERS.

Thinking of others above ourselves is not an easy thing to do and come to think of it, is not expected of anyone. Even the bible says "Love your neighbor as yourself and not more than yourself".

Now many people think they love themselves when in actual sense they don't. Their actions speak the contrary of what they think. You must think of your own good before you can think of the good of others. You must be able to help yourself before you can help others.

Now i just heard over the news on Silver bird television (STV) of how a 64 year old woman was caught at the Muritala Mohammed International Airport Lagos for drug trafficking, she being a mother and of course a wife.

Now tell me, do you think she loves herself and thinks of her wellbeing not to talk of thinking and loving the 'others' in her life; her family and friends? This is a call for us to realize that whatever we do does not only reflect in our lives but also in the lives of those attached to us in one way or the other.

Life is full of beautiful things and experiences for those who will do what will bring out the beauty in life for them to possess. I bet that its people like that woman that was caught drug trafficking that will tomorrow say things like " life is hard o" or "this world is wicked".

We must take responsibility for our actions, actions that could in turn bless or curse those around us. The choice is ours to make, now and always.

the beauty of friends

i just got my own blog and its exciting. i have always wanted to have an avenue where i can share my thoughts, ideas, experiences and lots more. i love people and i love talking or encouraging.

the title of my first post is ' the beauty of friends' and this is so because i have great friends, though i'll be talking about a particular one that has proven to me that a good friend is priceless.

life for me has honestly not been the same since i hooked up with this friend and it's been like 7 years going. friends i think are for the good and the bad times and that's it with this my friend.

i first met her because she wanted to help. though i was a distant acquaintance then, she still offered to help me in a way that for me is hard to forget so many things i have learnt about life is linked to her in some ways- passion for excellence n success, wealth, love and life.

did i tell u that i speak french very well, that's kudo's to the efforts she made to assist me when i needed to.

now, i'm writing to you. this is because i was inspired by her wanting to share with the world what she knows through her blog.

this friend is compassionate and caring, she is one great encourager and a great fighter.

i could go on and one but....! do you have a friend? someone who can have your back anyday and time? are you a friend indeed?

i have one, she is Tamunoibifiri Mobolaji kamson and she is teaching me to be one and as such i dedicate this blog to her and to the good that she embraces.